I say "yes" to everything. I say it to others. And I say it to myself.
Should we go to a state-run playdate? Yes. Should I join a club for moms? Maybe a Meetup group? Yes and yes. Would we like to come over to play? Yes. Would we like to come for lunch? Yes. Should I chase that gal down and get her number cause our kids are the same age and she seemed pretty cool? Yes. Twice, yes actually.
Moving is still hard and finding friends is a process, but I certainly won't find them if I stay in my house just missing Memphis.